Even if your relationship with your spouses is not good right now, you can fix it. Here are some tips on fostering closeness and understanding.
It’s a cliche, to be sure, but one with some truth to it: Brides often have tumultuous relationships with their mothers-in-law. It may be that your new husband’s mom doesn’t think anyone could be good enough for her baby, or it might be that you’re replacing her as the numero uno woman in his life; whatever the reason, tension between wives and moms-in-law has been around long enough to make it a universally understood issue. The good news is that you can have a wonderful relationship with your husband-to-be’s mother, even if you’ve gotten off to a rocky start. Here are some tips on fostering familial closeness and understanding.
The time to set the stage for a great relationship with your mother-in-law is now. Nipping tension in the bud can lay the framework for a healthy family dynamic later, when grandchildren arrive, and then when she needs extra care during her later years. Have the expectation that you’ll get along, and most likely, you will!